Guest wrote: ↑Sun Jun 08, 2025 1:34 pm
Guest wrote: ↑Sun Jun 08, 2025 5:12 am
Girls, in your opinion, between Seulgi and Irene, who fell first and who fell harder?
I think Irene fell first because she was at a stage of life where she could recognise her feelings aa attraction. Seulgi, I know she was immediately charmed by Irene, but she also probably didn't realise her feelings and thought of it as admiration for Irene. From the moment she realised though, she has been so down bad
I agree totally anon. I think Seulgi immediately was mesmerized and drawn to Irene and if she understood herself she would have understood it was was the biggest crush ever but as she thought herself as straight at the time she just thought it was fascination/admiration and that Irene's beauty was just mesmerizing.
I think she started understanding she was bi/gay around the secret unnie moment.
But yeah once she understood she was head over heels over Irene and she understood she was the only one for her.
I think that they have been in a platonic lesbian relationship even if they were physically very close in a gay way since their trainee days with ups and downs.
I think like you that Irene understood she was lesbian far earlier in high school with her huge crush on her purple friend. It was her first love whether unrequited or not. I think it was intense enough for Irene to realize she was lesbian. When you crave wearing the dirty gym clothes of a woman you don't know you end up asking yourself the right questions.
So Irene started crushing on Seulgi when they were very young i don't know exactly when but we know that when they debuted Irene was already crushing on her so it started before that. The way they were possessive of each other was always so lesbian. Also the way Irene couldn't even look at Seulgi without getting lost in her lips.
I think that for Irene it was a really difficult thing to handle as Seulgi thought she was het and was lightyears away form realizing what she was feeling for Irene was obviously very gay. Irene also was the group leader with responsabilities to add to the difficulties.
It was also probably hard for her to move on as without realizing it Seulgi was feeding that lesbian relationship as the crush and craving was clearly mutual. It 's why there was a lot of push and pull at the time. Irene was sometimes a bit distant with Seulgi and there was a lot of push and pull form her because it allowed her to stay in control of the relationship.
I think that the wish to control each other comes form those times because Irene wanted Seulgi in a biblical way and Seulgi was too unaware to understand what she was feeling was romantic feelings and desire so Irene used push and pull tactics to regain a bit of power over the relationship and it made Seulgi feel a bit powerless and wanting to control Irene. I think that they wanted to possess and control each other because they couldn't get each other. You can often see it in old videos.
It's also baffling how they always obsess over each other and where the other is and always end up initating some sort of physical contact.
I think their relationship became officialy sexual/lesbian around jeju. I think that if they are in a serious relationship it started after dreamcon. I think there whole drama was about comitting in a real lifelong relaitonship and seeing each other as each other lifelong partners. They clearly settled their differences and since then have been the happiest ever.
You can see how much more peaceful they are with each other, there is a level of trust and love rarely seen before. The way Irene comes ot cuddle in Seulgi's side as soon as she sees her you can see Seulgi is the safest place in the world for her. You can also see Seulgi constant blatant simping.
I think it's so cute they still make each other blush just by looking each other in the eyes. If we are right and they are really dating they are the cutest and healthiest couple ever. So yeah i think Irene fell first and that when Seulgi realized that what she felt for Irene was lesbian love it must have hitted her like a sac of brics so at that moment she might have fell harder but now i think they are both absolutely and equally in love.